You may be having a miscarriage.
Common signs of a miscarriage are pain and bleeding. A small amount of bleeding can be normal during the first 3 months of pregnancy. Often the pain and bleeding stop, and you have a normal pregnancy and baby. But heavy bleeding or severe cramping can be an early sign of miscarriage. A miscarriage means an unexpected loss of your pregnancy.
At this time, your doctor doesn’t know whether you will have a miscarriage, or if things will clear up and your pregnancy will continue normally. This can be emotionally difficult. There is little that can be done to change the way you feel. But understand that miscarriages are common.
About 1 or 2 out of every 10 pregnancies end this way. Some even end before you know you are pregnant. This happens for a number of reasons, and usually the cause is never known. It’s important you know that it is not your fault. It didn’t happen because you did anything wrong.
Having sex or exercising does not cause a miscarriage. These activities are usually safe unless you have pain or bleeding, or your doctor tells you to stop. Even minor falls won’t cause a miscarriage. Miscarriages happen because things were not developing as they were supposed to. No medicine can prevent a miscarriage.
Again, understand that things are uncertain right now. You may still have some bleeding. This may be light spotting or like a period, and you may pass some tissue. You may have some cramping. This is why follow-up care is important.
Home care
To improve the chance of keeping your pregnancy, you should take these steps:
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Rest in bed until the pain and bleeding stop.
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Don’t have sex until your doctor says it’s okay.
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Use sanitary napkins instead of tampons.
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Don’t douche.
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Don’t take aspirin, ibuprofen, or naproxen.
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Don’t have alcohol or caffeinated drinks and don't smoke or vape (e-cigarettes).
Follow-up care
Make an appointment with your doctor within the next week, or as directed.
If you had an ultrasound, a radiologist will review it. You will be told of any new findings that may affect your care.
Call 911
Call
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Severe pain and very heavy bleeding.
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Severe lightheadedness, passing out, or fainting.
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A rapid heart rate.
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Trouble breathing.
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Confusion or trouble waking up.
When to get medical advice
Contact your doctor right away if you have:
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Vaginal bleeding or pain that lasts for more than 3 days.
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Heavy bleeding. This means soaking 1 new pad an hour over 3 hours.
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Fever of 100.4°F (38°C) or higher, or as directed by your doctor.
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Pain in your lower belly (abdomen) that gets worse.
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Weakness or dizziness.
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Passage of anything that resembles tissue. This would be pink or grayish membrane or solid material. Save the tissue in a clean container and bring it to your doctor.
Author: jkenkel
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